A Guide For An Outrageous Vacation
Why do guys end up buying drinks for unattractive girls they have no interest in while the one they really want sits alone in the corner?
(Honest, this happens way more than you would like to believe.)
The problem is that guys do not exercise their power
A lot of men have it in their heads that if any woman gives them the time of day they need to be polite and let the woman call the shots.
It doesn't work that way in Asia so leave the Western mindset behind.
If you see a stunner, don't feel she's too beautiful to go with you (yet another Western mindset to be left at home).
- Thai girls like to be picked
So don't be too shy to pick them
- Thai girls like a man who takes charge
So take charge and lead the way
- Thai girls like to make their man happy by doing what he wants
So tell them what you want
The basic idea is that a "good woman", in her eyes, takes enjoyment in knowing her man is enjoying himself, which in turn will please her. (Is Thailand a great country or what?)
Now, this only tells half the story. It's not enough to only know how things operate because it will still seem strange and you'll miss out on opportunities or make mistakes.
And there's no way to anticipate every situation you might encounter and to offer advice.
It's far better to understand the underlying reasons why things work the way they do.
So Be Assertive: Get Why Thailand
Author, Why Thailand? A Guide for an Outrageous Vacation