Why Thailand?
A Guide For An Outrageous Vacation

Me Shy...

Sooner or later, the following scene is guaranteed to play out for you in Thailand...

The girl dancing up on stage in little more than her birthday suit is working some serious bumps and grinds, showing off what nature has given her in the most captivating way.

You're hypnotized. You're mesmerized. You're seduced.

(Actually, what you are is a guy with a major hard-on because she's been grinding her ass into your crotch for the last 10 minutes.)

There comes a point when you need to have her. Like right now.

Once back in your room she showers. Upon exiting the bathroom however, she insists on keeping her towel wrapped protectively around her and, while looking up at you with puppy-dog eyes, innocently utters the dreaded words: "Me shy"

What in the world is going on?!!

What happened to the outrageous temptress in the bar?

And who the hell is this modest village maiden - as pure and chaste as new fallen snow?

How you handle the next moment is absolutely critical in how the night will proceed.

Oh, you'll get laid. No question about that. But whether it's a night to remember or one you would rather forget depends on what you do at this point.

This is one of those times when it pays to know what you're doing.
(And *this* is where the Why Thailand Guide comes in.)

If you become impatient, speak harshly, or roughly rip the towel away - well, don't expect a great performance (certainly not the kind of erotic sweaty sex encounter many gentlemen prefer).

"Me shy" doesn't necessarily mean you're stuck with a star fish.

"Me shy" simply means she wants something other than money from you. And if you give her what she wants, you'll be richly rewarded with what you want.

It's a Matter of Face

What you must understand is that Thai girls don't want to be seen as easy.

What Thai girls really want is to be sweet-talked and to be won over. To be courted - or at least to go through the motions of it.

(Tip: "Me Shy" girls are super responsive to the magical effects of Thai sniff kisses.)

It may be playing with semantics, but Thai girls do not look upon themselves as prostitutes. They want to connect at some level.

It all comes back to Face. Face can drive you crazy with its subtlety. You need to become sensitive to when Face is in play, and know what to do.

Follow the Why Thailand guide and you'll be prepared to deal with Face - even gaining some for yourself as well.

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Best regards,
Steve Seltzer
Author, Why Thailand? A Guide for an Outrageous Vacation