A Guide For An Outrageous Vacation
And Why to Far Away Thailand?
There are a variety of reasons to travel. It can be to relax, have fun, or maybe to have a change of pace. Traveling can also be about relationships. Traveling with a companion/lover is often viewed as an ideal experience as you have dedicated time for one another. But what if you aren't in a relationship?
While traveling alone has its advantages, the truth is that traveling without your honey often just doesn't cut it. And finding a holiday romance while on vacation generally doesn't happen, so you end up not traveling at all.
Your concerns might also be larger than not just having a travel companion/lover. In the selection of one's life-mate department, you say you dropped the ball? And it turned out to be a major disillusionment, as you couldn't just simply turn around and get another relationship?
You went through endless angst replaying the minutiae of what she said and what you said. It's depressing. Also depressing is the realization that getting "good" at relationships is like anything else: it requires practice -- practice that is often in short supply.
There's a solution for the problems of not having a travel companion, not being in a current relationship, and not getting the needed practice at relationships. It's called Thailand. And thrown in as a bonus, you also get tales to regale both friends and strangers with.
Think of Thailand as an accelerated relationship course. Within a space of just a few days you can find yourself going from a night of fast sex to having a full blown girlfriend. It's not unusual that over a span of, say, one or two weeks (or sometimes less!) you connect with a girl as you have with no other before; that you may very well be having the time of your life.
If relationship experiences are what you desire, Thailand is hard to beat. In Thailand you are king. Screw up your relationship? Not good but not a disaster either. You can get solace the next day (actually even sooner than that).
For a modest cost, you can have a holiday that is especially memorable, perhaps even life changing. Not only can you have all the girls you ever dreamed about, you can have a great time. Be it dancing, drinking, looking at sexy girls, sharing camaraderie, or relaxing at an open-air bar playing pool while having a sweet young thing cooing over you and ministering to your needs by applying cool moist towels to your hot neck and fevered brow.
Have experiences you've read about only happening to others in works of fiction. The difference this time though, is that you're the main character. For real. And you don't need to be a young stud muffin or have charismatic charm (it certainly doesn't hurt to have these qualities, but it isn't necessary either). You can simply be you. The only real requirement is for you to want to have a good time. You will be surprised to find just how far a ready smile will take you.
Thailand is all about having fun -- a place where every night is Saturday night. You may even discover a new you, that you are really an extrovert at heart; that you can say hello to a perfect stranger and receive a civil reply (This, from other fellow travelers. As for the girls, they will be far more than merely civil...)
What is amazing is the different level of attention you receive over in Thailand. In the West, you might go to a club for the evening. You approach girls or they approach you, but half of the time you either don't click or you don't find them attractive. If you do find them attractive then you might swap numbers and talk for awhile or, if you're in especially good form that night, take them home, have sex, and that's it.
The girls in Thailand actually want to please, they want to massage you, they want to interact with the emphasis on having fun. I know what you're thinking, of course you're going to get attention, these girls are after your money and they'll do whatever it takes to get it whether you're 22 or 72. Be that as it may, it's not that simple.
Women's lib hasn't made it over to Thailand. The women aren't loud or brash; they are feminine and attentive. Treat your girl with respect and attention, be aware of face and of what's important to your girl, and she will not be able to do enough for you.
She will put toothpaste on your toothbrush and wash your back. In bed she will wrap herself around you. Maybe even more than that. She might not allow you to put food on your plate in a buffet, insisting on doing it for you. Or she might trim your already-shortened fingernails and clean your ears (you haven't lived until you have truly wax-free ears). She wants to show her appreciation. Thai women take care of their men and it's intoxicating.
Basically, the way things work is if you give the girls what they want -- and we're not talking money here -- if you are fun, entertaining, and understand face, the girls will repay you many times over. On the other hand, if you view them as whores -- well, how do you think you'll be repaid?
Pay in the coin of the realm and you'll be richly rewarded with squeals of delight.
The sum of what Thailand offers is hard to beat: a rich, complex adventure fueled by randomness. Sit back and enjoy the ride. One of the nice things about Thailand is that it is entirely "Up to you" (you'll hear this phrase a lot). Many men, either by intent or by chance, do end up having relationships to some degree with the women they meet. It's easy to the point of being natural.
Prepare thyself for a great ride.
Put WHY THAILAND to work for you
and have the vacation of a lifetime!